3 Must-Read Books for Personal Growth in 2026

Reshape how you see time, ambition and progress. Let’s explore practical frameworks for intentional personal growth and momentum for your 2026. 

Reshape how you see time, ambition and progress. Let’s explore practical frameworks for intentional personal growth and momentum for your 2026. 

If you’re planning on making your 2026 more about progress than just your to-do list, let’s talk about 3 must-read personal growth books to add to your reading list. The most influential personal growth books aren’t just motivational or even simply great storytelling; they shift perspectives. They challenge conventions and change the rules of the game altogether. 

To make your 2026 intentional rather than reactive, these books will help you think, plan and perform like never before. 

  1. The 12-Week Year by Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington

Having your best year yet starts with how you perceive your year to begin with. Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington’s The 12-Week Year is a complete paradigm shift. It’s about refining your perception of time altogether. Which, as changing calendars throughout history and across civilisations show, isn’t that far-reaching an idea. 

The authors argue that thinking in the traditional 12 months creates complacency.  Because you overestimate how much time you have to achieve your objectives. By reducing your mindset to ’12-Week Years,’ you increase your urgency. But this is more than simply thinking in quarters; it’s taking all of that motivation you feel at the start and end of a year and harnessing it for your 12-Week Year. Forget 12-month calendars - 12 weeks is the year:

“The 12 Week Year narrows your focus to the week and, more to the point, the day, which is where execution occurs.”

The key to an effective 12 Week-Year Plan is in both lead and lag indicators:  

“Effective measurement captures both lead and lag indicators that provide comprehensive feedback necessary for informed decision making. Lag indicators—things like income, sales, commission dollars, pounds lost, body fat percentage, overall cholesterol levels—represent the end results that you are striving to achieve. Lead indicators are the activities that produce the end results—for instance, the number of sales calls, or referrals are lead indicators in the sales process.”

Lead indicators focus on what you can control - the effort that produces the results. Lag indicators show you the results of those efforts. 

2. The 10X Rule by Grant Cardone

In its simplest form, Grant Cardone’s The 10X Rule champions for you to:

    • Set goals that are 10X greater than what you think you can achieve

    • Set actions that are 10X greater than what you think is required

It sounds simple, but here’s what Cardone describes as the four biggest mistakes in goal setting: 

    1. Mistargeting by setting objectives that are too low and don’t allow for enough correct motivation

    2. Severely underestimating what it will take in terms of actions, resources, money and energy to accomplish the target

    3. Spending too much time competing and not enough time dominating your sector

    4. Underestimating the amount of adversity you’ll need to overcome to actually attain your goal

Cardone highlights that people tend to overestimate what they can achieve in a year. Yet, underestimate what they can achieve in five, ten or more years.

The book proposes that setting safe goals, with a low bar, actually sets you up for failure due to the insufficient level of motivation it creates. So you’ll likely miss even the low mark you set for yourself. Low goals and low motivation create low outcomes. High goals create high motivation that more likely heightens your likelihood of success, no matter where you land compared to your lower benchmarks. 

Why dominate and not compete? Because competing is a loser’s game. You’ll find yourself in a comparison trap. But, worse, comparison stifles your creativity and potential. It means you’re always on the back foot chasing what someone else has achieved rather than changing the game altogether. Dominating, on the other hand, is a winner’s game. In this game, the competition becomes irrelevant. The book highlights that if you compare yourself to anyone, compare yourself to the biggest players in your pursuits. The success of the biggest winners shouldn’t deflate you; it should inspire you:

“Until you become completely obsessed with your mission, no one will take you seriously. Until the world understands that you're not going away—that you are 100 per cent committed and have complete and utter conviction and will persist in pursuing your project—you will not get the attention you need and the support you want.”

The big winners don’t compete or copy - they set the pace. They lead their pack.

3. Tiny Experiments  by Anne-Laure Le Cunff

Goal-setting isn’t without its limitations, as Anne Laure Le Cunff reminds us in Tiny Experiments. To begin with, often our goals aren’t even our own.  We borrow from our peers, celebrities and societal expectations. French philosopher René Girard called this phenomenon mimetic desire - meaning we desire something because others desire it.

Tiny Experiments highlights why goal-setting is broken and is an alternative approach to personal growth. Through a mindset of constant experimentation, the book shifts your perspective from fixed ladders to growth loops.  Goals set specific targets, while trial and error replaces a linear approach to evolving with cycles of experimentation.  

When you switch from a linear mindset to an experimental one, you focus on showing up instead of perfecting everything. Le Cunff says: 

“No more SMART goal setting, no more five-year career plans, no more life road maps. As long as you complete each trial, success is guaranteed even if you don’t know what it looks like." 

So, how do you create some structure around your personal growth if you aren’t setting goals? Make pacts.  A pact is a commitment you make to yourself. It can be quick, like trying a new project for 10 minutes a day for 10 days. Or, it can be more in-depth, like writing 100 blogs in 100 days, as Le Cunff did.  A pact is not a habit with an unbounded time commitment, like exercise every day. A pact has a specific number of trials, is driven by curiosity and has an end date. You are learning with a lack of preconceived notions. More repetition in your pact gives you more data, but shorter pacts can often be even more effective, giving you immediate and non-intimidating insights. You just need enough trials to obtain a result you trust. 

What makes pacts so effective is that they focus on outputs, shifting the focus from outcomes to process. By prioritising process, progress is achieved through incremental experimentation. Inevitably, your simple and repeated activity will bring you closer to achieving your authentic ambitions. Replacing goal-setting with making pacts shifts the focus from outcomes to process:

“Experiments are built for the in-betweens; they propel you forward even without a fixed destination.”

Sustainable transformation 

The best personal growth books don’t offer a promise of overnight transformation. They change your mindset and shift your systems. They aren’t always about having the perfect plan, but about how you plan to begin with. Progress belongs to those willing to rethink the old rules and set the pace for what success really looks like going forward. 

Dianne Glavaš

Personal brand coach, consultant and speaker for executives, emerging leaders and business owners. I’m based in Adelaide, and am available online Australia-wide. Use personal branding to differentiate your trusted brand in the marketplace and build industry influence.

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